Evoking Empathy in Education: The Challenge to Inspire Students to Care
Published 12 December 2024
“...And this picture we were on at this particular time was an actual photograph of an actual enslaved person with their back towards the camera. So, a very charged photo. I asked the student, ‘How do you feel when you look at this picture?’ And his response was ‘Pfft. I don’t care.’ But of course in a French accent. That moment plays over and over in my head all the time. I think about it so often because it was such a shot to the heart reminder. It’s very much that reminder of ‘You can lead a horse to water but you can’t make him drink.’”
Empathy is a cornerstone of emotional intelligence and an essential skill for navigating the complexities of human relationships. For educators, inspiring empathy in students is both a rewarding and challenging part of the job. But what happens when a student refuses to show empathy, even when faced with poignant moments or emotionally charged content?
The quote above highlights a common struggle educators face. In teaching, we often introduce students to histories, stories, and perspectives meant to inspire reflection and connection. Yet, there are moments when students remain unmoved, indifferent, or even dismissive. These experiences, though disheartening, serve as reminders of the complexity of emotional growth and the importance of persistence.
Why Empathy Matters
Empathy not only improves interpersonal relationships but also enhances critical thinking and problem-solving skills. According to a study by Zaki (2019), empathy builds resilience and promotes collaboration, making it a crucial life skill for students. Moreover, classrooms that emphasize empathy report stronger community bonds, reduced bullying, and higher levels of student engagement (Taylor et al., 2021).
However, fostering empathy isn’t always straightforward. Cultural influences, personal experiences, and developmental stages can impact a student’s capacity to empathize. Some students may resist because they feel vulnerable, fear judgment, or simply lack exposure to diverse perspectives.
Strategies for Inspiring Empathy
When teaching empathy, especially to reluctant students, it’s vital to strike a balance between patience and intentionality. Here are five evidence-based strategies to effectively inspire empathy in your classroom:
1. Engage with Stories
Stories are powerful tools for building empathy. Research suggests that narratives, especially those told from diverse perspectives, activate emotional processing and help students relate to others (Mar et al., 2009). Incorporate literature, documentaries, and personal accounts that invite students to see the world through someone else’s eyes.
2. Encourage Self-Reflection
Prompt students to examine their own beliefs and experiences through reflective writing or discussions. When students recognize parallels between their lives and others’, they’re more likely to feel empathetic.
3. Create Opportunities for Role Play
Role-playing activities help students step into someone else’s shoes. Whether reenacting historical events or solving fictional ethical dilemmas, these exercises encourage students to think critically about others’ emotions and experiences.
4. Foster a Safe Environment
Building empathy requires vulnerability. Establish a classroom culture where students feel safe expressing their emotions and exploring sensitive topics without fear of ridicule.
5. Model Empathy Yourself
Teachers are role models for emotional behavior. Demonstrating empathy in your interactions with students and colleagues sets the tone for your classroom culture.
Addressing Resistance
But what about students who actively resist empathy, like the one in the quote? For these students, it’s important to approach the situation with understanding and strategy. Start by exploring their resistance—–are they masking discomfort with indifference? Could they be experiencing emotional fatigue or a lack of context?
Avoid forcing students into emotional reactions. Instead, continue offering opportunities for engagement and connection over time. Research indicates that sustained exposure to empathetic practices gradually shifts perspectives, even in reluctant individuals (Zaki, 2019).
Practical Tips
Introduce weekly reflection prompts, such as "How would you feel if you were in this situation?"
Use current events to discuss real-world implications of empathy and its absence.
Pair students for collaborative activities that require teamwork and perspective-sharing.
Design service-learning projects that allow students to make tangible contributions to their communities.
Dedicate time for open dialogue about feelings, reactions, and ethical questions.
Conclusion
Teaching empathy is not always easy, but it is one of the most impactful lessons educators can impart. By using stories, creating safe spaces, and modeling empathetic behavior, teachers can inspire students to care and connect. Though some students may resist, persistence and intentionality can make a difference. As educators, our role isn’t just to lead students to the water but to ensure they understand the value of the journey.
Discussion Question
What strategies have you used to encourage empathy in students who initially resist?
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Mar, R. A., Oatley, K., & Peterson, J. B. (2009). Exploring the link between reading fiction and empathy: Ruling out individual differences and examining outcomes. Communications, 34(4), 407–428. Retrieved from https://www.yorku.ca/mar/Mar%20et%20al%202009_reading%20fiction%20and%20empathy.pdf
Taylor, R. D., Oberle, E., Durlak, J. A., & Weissberg, R. P. (2021). Promoting positive youth development through school-based social and emotional learning interventions: A meta-analysis. Child Development, 92(4), 1156–1174. Retrieved from https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/28685826/
Zaki, J. (2019). The war for kindness: Building empathy in a fractured world. New York: Crown. Retrieved from https://www.penguinrandomhouse.com/books/550616/the-war-for-kindness-by-jamil-zaki/
